Parent Counseling
Parenting – Joyous But Stressful! Therapy for Parents Can Help.
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Respond with more patience and calm.
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Have a peaceful start to their work day.
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Talk to their kid so he/she/they will listen.
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Have their kid to help out in the morning instead of chasing/nagging him or her to get things done.
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Have more loving moments with their child
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Have more peace in household
You Are In A Relationship With Your Child
Using a reflective parenting approach during intense moments can effectively enhance your child’s resilience and strengthen your connection with them.
Common Issues Discussed In Therapy for Parents
Every parent has their own set of unique experiences. We will work on whatever is important to you. Some common topics and issues that come up in therapy for parent sessions are:
- Anxiety with being a new parent
- Anxiety with being a parent to 2+ kids
- Feelings of shame, fatigue, or helplessness
- Feeling ineffective
- Coping with defiant behaviors
- Dealing with meltdowns
- Overcoming procrastination
- What to do when kids are pushing your buttons
- Feelings of anger and frustration
- What to do when you need help
- Parental reactivity
- How to better understand your children and what they are trying to tell you
- Different parenting styles
- Dealing with your own inner child work
How It Works
What To Expect In Session
The initial consultation is with both parents, ideally together and in-person. We start by getting to know each other, going over what is happening that has brought them in and what they hope to work on. I gather a thorough family history, paying close attention to early childhood relationships and patterns that may be impacting the family.
My Approach to Therapy for Parents
I work from a reflective parenting, insight oriented, and attachment-based approach to better understand what might be happening underneath both the child’s and parent’s behaviors and focus on important routines and structures to improve relationships.
Frequently Asked Questions
What are your hours?
Mon. 11:00 A.M. – 5:00 P.M.
Wed. 9:00 A.M. – 6:00 P.M.
Thurs. 9:00 A.M. – 5:00 P.M.
How long are your sessions?
The initial consultation/evaluation is 90 minutes. Therapy sessions are 45 minutes and scheduled at a weekly frequency. Parent collaterals are 45 minutes and scheduled at a monthly frequency or more depending on your needs. Consultation sessions with clinicians are also 45 minutes and are scheduled as frequently as appropriate to suit your needs. Depending on your situation or at various times during your treatment, we may determine to increase that frequency to twice a week or more.
What are your fees, cancellation, and rescheduling policy?
As a licensed psychologist, my fee for an initial evaluation/consultation is $500 for 90 mintues. You may also schedule a free 20-minute consultation using the contact form at the bottom of this page.
Ongoing psychotherapy, play therapy, parenting therapy, and consultation is $250 for 45-minutes.
I require a 7-day notice for cancelling or rescheduling appointmets.
Please Note: Under the No Surprises Act, you have the right to receive a Good Faith Estimate for the total expected cost of any non-emergency healthcare services, including psychotherapy services.
Do you accept insurance?
No. But after working with many insurance companies for nearly 20 years, I understand how complex navigating insurance can be. It’s important for you to understand your benefits. I work with patients who want to use their Health Savings Account (HSA) or their out-of-network benefits. Through my secure patient portal, you will have access to all your invoices at any time. Each invoice includes all the information you need to submit any out of network claims. My patients have told me that this access was easy, convenient, and much appreciated.
What types of payment do you accept?
I accept cash, checks, credit cards, and HSA credit cards.
What do I do if I have an emergency?
Call 911 to go to your nearest emergency room.
If you live in Marin county, you can call the Mobile Crisis Response Team Mon-Sat 1pm-9pm 415-473-6392 or Psychiatric Emergency Services 415-473-6666.
Other resources include:
- Crisis line 800-273-8255,
- S.F. Suicide Prevention: (415) 781-0500
- Warmline: PhoneSupportfor Peers (7 days a week 1pm-9pm) 415-459-6330
How do I know when it’s time to seek help?
A good time to consider seeking professional help is when the strategies you’ve tried are not having much of an effect. If you or your child’s issues significantly interfere with school, work, family, or social life, and if you or your child has experienced symptoms on most days for a month or more, and you or your child is open, curious, and committed, then it is a good time to seek help.
How can therapy help?
Adults, teens and kids often experience great relief when they express themselves fully and connect well with a trusted therapist. Success may vary depending on the particular issue addressed, how well you or your child is open, honest, and uses the process and feedback, and the extent to which what is learned is practiced outside the sessions. Some of the benefits from therapy include: attaining greater awareness, insight, and deeper understanding for yourself or your child that leads to improved relationships, self esteem, confidence, learning new ways to solve problems at work, school, or in your family, improving communication and listening skills, changing maladaptive behavior patterns
Do you work with kids or adults?
I see both! I see bright, high achieving children and teens who are anxious, grieving, or have low self-esteem. Children and teens do not always know what is happening and have a hard time verbalizing what is going on. I also see adults for individual therapy, parenting therapy, and clinical consultation. Many bright, high achieving adults who worry, have family issues or patterns that continue to challenge them, are coping with a difficult loss, or are experiencing a new or unexpected change find it helpful working with me.